Thursday, March 25, 2010

Getting Married

What is the right age nga ba in getting married? For a girl, does being 25, 26, 27 and up really need to rush things nga ba? Biologically, maybe, it's a factor. Emotionally, i don't think there is a right age in getting married.

Before getting there, you have to be prepared in all aspects syempre. Emotionally, spiritually, at most especially Financially. Lalo na if you are the guy.

It's funny how some people rush things out. Yeah, it's a fact, factor naman talaga ang age. But what if, iba ang sitwasyon mo? You are at the situation wherein, emotionally, financially ready kana? Tapos wala naman si Mr/Ms Right?

I know someone na halos ipagtabuyan na ng magulang nya para mag-asawa. She is currently aged 31 at the moment, has stable job, may hitsura, sexy nga e. Ok naman, she is open naman to the possibility to get married if there is someone who will woe at her. But then, wala e. Meron syang nakikilala, e halos sya naman ata magpapakain kapag magkatuluyan sila, and then meron din naman na gusto nya, kaso, pag-aari na ng iba. Katawa diba?

Well, as for me, si Mr. Right ko? Ayun, lumampas, kung kelan babalik or kung babalik pa, hindi ko alam. Kung hindi na, well I have to accept my fate. As for now, better to remain single na lang din muna and fulfill my remaining unfinished dreams, kesa naman pilit mong hanapin at antayin si Mr/Ms Right. Minsan nga, mas masarap maging single. No rules, No offense, No sorries, No heartaches. But if fate turn favorably to my side, in an instant things will definitely change. As for now, single and happy ako. There are a lot of things that a person can be happy about naman e. It depends on the person himself nga lang what will make him happy.

Ako, mababaw lang ako, happy na ko, if at the end of the day I did what i had to do, I have listen to the song that best describe my mood at that day, kapag may ginawang kakaiba yung mga pets ko that pleased me a lot. When I saw something funny at the internet, if I gained additional knowledge and discovered new things, happy na ko. Lalo naman kapag nabusog ako ng todo and I sleep soundly. Plus, nakagawa ako ng entry sa blog ko, yun na! Tapos during evening nanalo pa Ginebra, wala na, masayang masaya na ko nun. Babaw di ba? Well, I have chosen to be happy in a non-complicated way. Para kapag masama ang araw ko, I can easily rebound. Maybe, ganun din yung ibang tao kaya di nila namamalayan yung edad nila. Sabi nga e, nasa marrying stage na, aliw na aliw pa sa single life.

Basta ako, ok na ako, I know now what I want, and maybe God want me to be this way. . . . . .

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